Thanks Sabrina..youve done a great job!

I love the false finish trick. That's where the spanker acts as though he is wrapping up and closing down, even as I am wishing for a little more. Then comes another sudden flurry of delicious ouchiness as though he read my mind.

I would put that one under the *like* category Bonnie! That is my kind of top.

Allie

Note to self Allie. I'll keep this in the top secret "ALLIE LIKES" spanko matchmaker file.

*simply* I love feeling safe enough to be fully submissive, and yet knowing that if I chose to not submit, he can make me. My willful stubbornness doesn't matter. . . . . he is strong enough to take care of me, period. There is an incredible, overwhelming sense of security, reliability, safety. . . . . my little words don't come close to describing the way I feel.

I like caring, but strict Tops.

I also like to be surprised, likw thinking he's done, but before you know it, you're back otk. Or you think you are getting away with it, but he turns the conversation so that it is a punishable offense.

I also like a little mean-ness. Like having you come up with a plan while otk and saying: you might be distracted a little. Or letting you say how something went while they are holding a paddle on your bottom. ( and he knows already it didn't go too well)

Perfect scenario Keagen. Trust truly is the key - without it, the other party simply becomes someone you would rather clobber over the head than be spanked by.

Great choice of words!

Sabrina

i love when i hear settle down or your getting your bottom tanned. lol sometimes I'd love to say, but its not even sunny out today!! but i love a firm man, and when i deserve to get a spanking, i actually get one. Sometimes they half ass it, which is such a let down. And when a guy can follow along with a role-play instead of not having fun and going with it.

I love that "look" that comes at the exact moment it is most needed, and knowing that there's not a hint of playing there. Knowing that while he can be perfectly playful, he can also back up his expectations in an all time ROYAL fashion. Guardrails, if you will.

I third that